We all have that little inner narrator who likes to spin our life story. Sometimes, it’s a drama, other times a horror show, and on better days, maybe even a light comedy. But what if your narrator could be your secret weapon for success?
In this week’s Confident Storytelling Podcast, we're diving deep into the world of mindset storytelling and exploring how powerful shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset can be. Spoiler alert: storytelling isn’t just for others; it’s also a potent tool for shaping the stories we tell ourselves.
The Big Question: Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset
Imagine your mindset like a car engine. A fixed mindset might be a rusty old engine that only starts if it feels like it, whereas a growth mindset is a turbocharged, "ready for anything" kind of motor that gets you moving even when the road gets rough.
Here’s the core difference: A fixed mindset says "I can’t because I never could" while a growth mindset whispers "I haven’t… yet." This simple addition of “yet” could be the boost your engine needs to keep going forward, even if the road seems endless. And that’s exactly what we’re aiming to do in our storytelling.
Personal Stories: Your Mindset Narrator at Work
Years ago, I read Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck, a life-changing read that pushed me to take a hard look at the stories I was telling myself. If you’re a coach, entrepreneur, or professional, this book (and today’s post) could be your golden ticket to a narrative upgrade!
We all face setbacks; it’s the way we spin these tales that makes the difference. With a growth mindset, these setbacks become "not yets" rather than dead-ends. It’s like walking down a road where every “NO” is just another step towards the big, resounding “YES!”
Storytelling and Mindset: Two Sides of the Same Coin
Why does storytelling matter so much in shaping your mindset? Because the way we frame our past and present experiences dictates our future.
Here are the ways fixed and growth mindsets shape our stories:
Fixed Mindset: "I am just not a natural speaker, so I'll never be a great storyteller."
Growth Mindset: "I might not be great at storytelling…yet. But I’m learning, practicing, and getting better."
This subtle but powerful shift is what drives successful coaches, speakers, and professionals forward. Think of yourself as the underdog protagonist in a hero’s journey—each challenge is another chapter, and each setback is just the dramatic twist that keeps readers (and listeners) hooked.
The "Yet" Factor: A Simple Word, A Major Shift
One of the most empowering words you can adopt into your narrative is “yet.” This tiny word can turn a fixed belief into a possibility. Let’s say you want to land a speaking gig in front of hundreds. You can say, “I haven’t spoken to that large of an audience… yet.” This simple addition keeps the door open.
In the Confident Storytelling Hub, our members learn to apply “yet” to transform their personal narratives. Every time you start to say, “I can’t” or “I’m not good enough,” try adding “yet.” Watch how it reframes your mindset from limited to limitless. It’s like upgrading from dial-up internet to high-speed fiber!
From Inner Narrative to External Influence
Of course, storytelling isn’t just about telling yourself empowering tales. It’s also a way to inspire others and build meaningful connections. Here’s how you can transform your storytelling into a powerful tool for growth, both internally and externally:
Shape Your Self-Narrative: Your self-talk matters. The stories you tell yourself are the building blocks of your mindset. Rather than saying, “I’m not good at this,” try “I’m improving at this.” Not only does it feel more empowering, but it also sets you up for a growth mindset that thrives on challenges.
Inspire with Your Story: When you share stories with others, you’re not just recounting events; you’re guiding their perception. Position your experiences as learning journeys. Instead of, “I faced a lot of setbacks,” say, “I went through numerous learning experiences that led me to where I am today.” This subtle shift makes your story more engaging and authentic.
The Growth Story Exercise: Flip the Script
Ready to turn your personal narrative into an engine for growth? Here’s a little exercise for you to try out, called the Growth Story Exercise.
Prompt: What is one story you can tell yourself today that will lead to a growth mindset?
Write it down, say it out loud, or share it with someone. You’ll be surprised at how empowering it feels to hear yourself say, “I’m getting better at public speaking,” or, “I haven’t yet started that project, but I’m gearing up for it.”
Embrace the Journey: Write Your Growth Story
Remember, storytelling is more than words; it’s the mindset you bring to each chapter of your life. With every story you tell, you’re crafting a narrative that either builds you up or holds you back.
So, which will you choose? Will you be the protagonist stuck in a loop of “I can’t,” or will you harness the magic of “yet” to open up new possibilities?
Sign-off
Thanks for joining this episode of the Confident Storytelling Podcast! Remember, every challenge is just a “not yet” waiting to happen. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep telling yourself empowering stories.
Until next time,
Coach Haritosh
P.S. Want to explore your growth mindset and unlock the power of storytelling in a supportive community? Join us at the Confident Storytelling Hub!
The Power of "Yet": Transform Your Life with a Growth Mindset through Storytelling